HOW TO TURN SEX INTO A SPIRITUAL HEALING EXPERIENCE
Sacred sex can be the most potent divine tool for deep physical and emotional healing, supporting you to overcome trauma through the power of transformative love. It can catalyse self-realisation and become a portal through which you strengthen your auric field. It can even lead to spiritual awakening. Sex is indeed a holy act and when done right, it has the potential to elevate your consciousness to an entirely new level. Sex won’t be like this every session but it’s important to have this type of experience often. Every sexual exchange and act of intimacy is significant…
Sacred sex intentionally engages the mystical in what otherwise is only physical. By connecting into your inner dimensions individually you connect into one another metaphysically. Sacred sex is the true practice of love and love is only present when you are. Co-creating deep spiritual intimacy involves joint cosmic awareness that is not just focused on ecstatic states but experiencing transcendent unity and multidimensional healing and pleasure.
AGREEING SEX IS A HOLY ACT
It takes two spiritually aware people to experience sacred sex. Sexual intimacy with an alignment in the sphere of thought. Our minds resonate in harmony before our body and soul can. It’s important that you discuss your spiritual beliefs and agree that you’re spiritual beings having a seemingly physical experience and that sex is a sacred ceremony.
CREATE SACRED ATMOSHPERE
Ambience is everything. Set the mood and frequency for love! Ensure the space is clean, clutter free and get into a sensual mood. Play music that you both enjoy that inspires chemistry, emotion and connection. Light candles or dim the lights to encourage the amplification of etheric energy. A gentle scent can help to invoke a sensual energy. I would recommend to use few drops of Rose oil in a diffuser. Roses are well known for their ability to bring harmony, romance and a sense of safety.
Make sure the scent is light and not overpowering. You want to primarily attune to the scent of your partner so don’t use anything too potent. Make the space beautiful. Place Rose quartz crystal in the room and let it infuse the space with the energy of love and healing.
PRACTISING PRESENCE AS PREPARATION
Make time to connect inwardly and connect to your soul before you engage in connecting with one another physically. Spend a few minutes consciously breathing together, coming onto deep heart-brain coherence so your energetic bodies can start to sync. Coming into energetic resonance sets you up to merge spiritually.
CONNECT AND COMMUNE WITH THE SACRED
Evoke the divine by saying a prayer together. An example maybe: I call on your Holy Presence to unify us through divine love. May our coming together be a toll of joy, healing and awakening to higher consciousness. You can create your own words. It can be said silently or together out loud. I believe it will help to shift the frequency of the atmosphere and have a greater overall effect.
WITNESS THE DIVINE INSIDE
Spend time touching, eye gazing and moving slow. Focus your attention on the details of each other’s bodies. Get into your senses and really listen to every murmur, savour every taste, enjoy the scent of your lover, be fully immersed in the sensation of the exchange. Intuit their inner being, their divine spark, ignite their divine fire. Merge with their body and their aura. See the Divine inside.
STAY IN SYNC
Communicate throughout your connection. Speak with softness. Feel into the words and sounds your partner makes throughout your lovemaking journey. Remember to make lots of eye contact. Create safety by inviting your partner to share their desires and express pleasure. Use your intuition to read their energy and state of being. Immerse yourself in them fully mind, body and soul. Feel the friction on an energetic level. Be rhythmic and follow the tides of energy. Get sync on all levels.
FOCUS ON PLEASURE NOT PERFORMNCE
Be relaxed and playful. Focus on your partner rather than your ego, your need to please or perform. Simply be in the moment. Have fun, be spontaneous and in flow with one another. Do not focus on an outcome. When your body and soul harmonise you will naturally create a rhythm that is like creating a song. This syncing of energy may lead to orgasm. Enjoy the experience, breathe and allow it to flood your cells and soul elevating your vibration. Let it linger. Remain connected after. Hold one another. Enjoy the bliss. Feel the depth of emotion flooding your being. Tears of joy may appear at this stage.
CELEBRATE YOUR PARTNER AND EXPERIENCE
Don’t be in a rush to get up. Maintain the connection and build the bond. Show gratitude and love towards your partner. Share your experience. Sit in joy and live through this moment together. Talk, share, appreciate, laugh, enjoy.
Give thanks for the experience. Feel the bond between you strengthen. Let it build deeper safety.
Every sacred sexual experience restructures your energetic body, building in a more spiritual you!